Hello people. Today I’m just gonna share a question that I always get the most. It’s how we motivate our self when no one else believe in us.
1. Politically Correct
Well. you just have to hustle and put your head down,
know your goals, know where you're going.
know your goals, know where you're going.
You read these things a lot.
You hear these things a lot.
2. The Truth
Here is the truth, if you need someone to motivate you,
you are not that motivated.
What I notice is these high performance people, we are
self-motivated.
There are a lot of people are looking for their family.
They are using excuses,
"my husband doesn't support me",
"my parents don't support me",
"my kids don't support me",
or even
"my friends don't support me".
Guess what?
Do not expect their support.
The air thin at the top.
And you have to learn to be alone without being lonely.
That's just the path.
When you're becoming more successful, that's the biggest
thing that holds most people back.
It's not the how to,
It's not the know what,
It's not don't know what to do,
It's the fact that they cannot operate on their own,
being able to self motivate at the same time not having to get permission from
the people around them.
Some be saying
"Don't you know I'm doing this for you?"
"How come you guys don't support me?"
"How come my family don't support me?"
"How come they don't understand?"
"I don't get it, I want to make more money,
I want to be more successful, to better their lives.
How come they don't understand?"
Guess what?
Most of the time, they will never understand.
You're expecting something that won't happen.
That's what holding you back.
You're expecting them to give you permission.
The question is why don't they support you?
It's very simple.
First of all, they don't understand. Because most of us, we grew up in the miseducational
system.
Where it's teaching you to behave a certain way. Go to school, get good grades and walk this path.
Get a degree, get a job, till you're 65. Marry, have kids, get a big mortgage.
That's your life.
Anything that deviates from that, that's not the
traditional path,
That is stupid.
That is dangerous.
That is wrong.
You shouldn't do that.
You should do this.
So the minute you want to walk a different path, the
people around you, you loved ones, they feel like you're so weird. How come you can't do what everybody else doing,
Just be normal.
Just settle.
Don't take risks.
Play safe.
Get a safe, secured job.
And the more you deviate from the traditional path, the
more they feel the distance between you and them.
They are afraid to lose you. They are afraid that you will leave them behind. That's why you don't have the support.
And your friends, do you think they want you to be mega
successful?
To live their dream life?
To travel, live in that beautiful home, to drive the care
that they could never afford?
Do you really think that they want you to be that
successful while they are living paycheck to paycheck?
N-O, NO!
They might say
"yeahh, we cheer for you."
" Congratulations man, good for you."
Deep down, enviousness, jealousy, lower self. It's human nature.
So what I'm saying is don't even expect it.
You're wasting your time.
You do what you think is right,
you do what you believe is right.
You walk your own path.
They might see it, they might not seeing it,
I'm not expecting them to see it.
This is my life, it's not their life.I do what I know I need to do.
so if you need someone to motivate you, you're not going to be successful.
I, me, NaddJane I don't need anyone to motivate me.
I don't need people to understand me.
I understand me, I motivate me.
You're waiting for someone to motivate, how come they don't support me, how can I be motivate.
You can't even get yourself to get off the bed and do
what it takes, and you want to be successful?
You want to be better than everybody else?
You want to develop that skill?
Not going to happen.
Just not going to happen.
You need to be self motivated.
Look across any industry, sports, entertainment,
business, anyone who has achieved excellence, you don't need to motivate them.
Because they demand more from themselves than anybody
else could.
I demand more from myself than anybody else could.
Do you demand more from yourself, than anybody else
could?
So don't wait.
Do it!
Just do it!
